update meta.yamls and conda-forge conda recipes

Author: ndgrigorian

conda-recipe-cf/bld.bat

@@ -1,4 +1,4 @@
 @rem Remember to activate Intel Compiler, or remove these two lines to use Microsoft Visual Studio compiler
 
-%PYTHON% setup.py build --force install --old-and-unmanageable
+%PYTHON% -m pip install --no-deps --no-build-isolation .
 if errorlevel 1 exit 1

conda-recipe-cf/build.sh

@@ -1,2 +1,2 @@
 #!/bin/bash -x
-$PYTHON setup.py build --force install --old-and-unmanageable
+$PYTHON -m pip install --no-deps --no-build-isolation .

conda-recipe-cf/meta.yaml

@@ -20,14 +20,14 @@ requirements:
     host:
       - meson-python >=0.13.0
       - meson
-      - pkg-config
+      - cmake
+      - ninja
       - python
       - python-gil     # [py>=314]
       - pip >=25.0
       - mkl-devel
       - cython
       - wheel >=0.45.1
-      - python-build >=1.2.2
     run:
       - python
       - python-gil     # [py>=314]

conda-recipe/meta.yaml

@@ -20,14 +20,14 @@ requirements:
     host:
       - meson-python >=0.13.0
       - meson
-      - pkg-config
+      - cmake
+      - ninja
       - python
       - python-gil     # [py>=314]
       - pip >=25.0
       - mkl-devel
       - cython
       - wheel >=0.45.1
-      - python-build >=1.2.2
     run:
       - python
       - python-gil     # [py>=314]