chore: update dependencies and versions in package.json

- bump node-addon-api from 8.6.0 to 8.7.0
- update eslint-plugin-regexp from 3.0.0 to 3.1.0
- upgrade jest from 30.2.0 to 30.3.0
- update ts-jest from 29.4.6 to 29.4.9
- change nodejs version to v25.x-staging@ffa9b8f
- bump sqlite version from 3.52.0 to 3.53.0

Author: mceachen