[branch-52] Update aws-smithy, bytes and time for security audits (apache#20546)

## Which issue does this PR close?

- Part of apache#20287

## Rationale for this change

The security audit CI check [failed
here](https://github.com/apache/datafusion/actions/runs/22381549301/job/64783156671?pr=20539)
on
- apache#20539

This is due to some dependencies being yanked (aws-smithy specifically)

## What changes are included in this PR?

Let's update the relevant dependencies with small security related fixes

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Author: alamb